My wife (42 years) is acutely attached to her mother who is dominating in the family. We were separated few years ago and have two daughters, 10 years and 8 years old. We are not yet divorced as I am against breaking of my marriage for the sake of my children. I have told my mother-in-law several times to stop interfering , but she does not agree as she is selfish. I told my wife to break free from her influence, but she cannot accept what I am telling her. The main problem is my wife who does not recognize the problem and wants to be dependent on her mother. My daughters are also dominated by their grandmother as neither one listens to me or has any bonding with me. Please suggest a way out for me.
Thanks in anticipation.
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